June 2025 Newsletter
It’s been often said over the last decade that change is the constant and how true this statement is. Usually it’s in reference to the economy or ecology or of the many systems that we all participate in that is part of living on Earth.
IF WE CHANGE EVERYTHING CHANGES
IF WE DON’T CHANGE NOTHING CHANGES
The recent events of the last decade have made me look more closely at the way people are responding to the consistent barrage of self- realisation. Dealing as I do with people daily it’s been an interesting exercise in seeing who is taking the opportunity to know themselves and those who are not.
Our issues and concerns have changed. Rather than just deal with the human day to day emotional issues that are seemingly happening outside our reality we are realising more and more that we are dealing with issues that are occurring within ourselves and consequently our inner reality. We really are rather brave beings at this time having to find within ourselves a way that will help to make sense of the times we live in and how best to adapt to them. We can’t look too far ahead at present, consequently we are having to identify the power of the day and adapt.
Circumstances of our lives will activate this need to adapt. I have reached the age where I am having to deal with the passing of parents, a more monumental change than I thought it would be. My stepmother passed two years ago, followed by my mother last year at the age of 92. And then in late May my 90 year old Father passed. Up to that point he really had nothing wrong and then suddenly he had everything wrong. Watching him in his last days was a fascinating completion. As I sat by his bed-side I could see his determination to be alive regardless of his laboured breathing and weakened physical state. He was moved from hospital into a hospice for his last days and whilst sitting with him I thought of the relationship we have with our parent’s.’ It is believed that souls choose their parents, and I wondered why I chose you to be my father.’’ What was the wisdom I have gained by having you in my life? How did you serve me? How did I serve you?
And now after these years of being in my life, you won’t be.
I thought also of all the people that have been in my life and that I wanted those souls to play the part that they did. At times as we know, those roles can be counterproductive to us but regardless of that it’s still an opportunity to decide how to respond to that.
Too often we hold onto negative experiences we have has with our parents and allow that to continually have an impact on our lives.
I held the hand of my Father, he had remarkable hands strong and creative, always full of activity. I spoke to him and thanked him for who he was in this life to me, and then said,
Who were we to each other, what was this all about?
It was about understanding ourselves through our relationship dynamics. We are all each other’s choices.
In the final minutes of his life a smile came onto his face and one single tear rolled down his cheek
What or who was he seeing?
I tried to be conscious of what he may be experiencing but realized it was more important to pay attention to what I was experiencing.
It’s been almost a month now and I still pick up my phone to ring him as I did through the week.
I made sure that in life I found out about him, asked him questions about his childhood, his parent’s, his experiences. At 90 he was living history, a link with a time in our history that is long gone.
And now that link is complete for me. Another life, another opportunity to know who I am is now complete.
EVENTS:
Tabaash with Nicole Loue will be speaking at Living and Giving 6.30pm-8.30pm TUESDAY JULY 22ND (New Zealand)
Go to The Art Of Living And Giving
info@artandlivingspace.nz for bookings
With every crazy event that keeps unfolding I find myself during my mediations wanting to help bring more light in.
I imagine the planet and then I imagine myself and millions of souls all linked in surrounding the planet and projecting light energy to all and everything. It always presents itself to me as the colour gold. Let’s all make the effort in this simple way.
Love and Hugs to you all
Blair
